If you’ve dealt with an “incel” or a man that’s been red-pilled, you’ve probably heard them regurgitate some version of this:
“Older women are bitter and miserable and just want other women to be bitter and miserable like them. That’s why they tell young girls and women to dump that man and be single.”
While there may be some exceptions of women doing that for that specific reason, we as women understand that's not true in most instances.
When I was a young girl, I was told “don’t rely on a man, be self-sufficient.”
I was still then raised to be a codependent, people pleaser so I had to learn that the hard way.
However, a lot of those older women that were telling us those things was because they were finally experiencing peace and happiness being single.
They no longer had a man, most commonly an angry man that hadn’t been taught how to regulate his emotions, disrupting their peaceful home.
The man had finally died or what have you.
And because they experienced not being able to be self-sufficient, not being able to be independent, and have a bank account or a credit card without a man's signature or a husband to open it and control it.
That when they finally did, they basically wanted us to take advantage of what feminism had brought us, instead of take it for granted
But the certain men that are saying it's because they are “bitter and miserable,” are not just trying to manipulate young girls into ignoring those older women, but are projecting their own behavior, which is why the male loneliness epidemic even exists.
You have older, bitter, and miserable men continuously pushing the narrative on young boys and younger men to hate women.
They tell them to view women as inferior, as whores, sluts, gold-diggers, etc.
Because they themselves are bitter, lonely, miserable, and they want other people to be miserable with them.
I heard this conspiracy theory from a woman named Rose on TikTok, that a larger, more well known writer copied a month later when it went viral and pushed.
I’m not a huge conspiracy theorist, but it actually makes perfect sense.
Rose explained that the manosphere is literally setting up men to be the perfect soldier.
She explained it much better but look at their behavior.
They hate women, so they prefer the company of men.
They focus heavily on working out, getting strong and fit, which isn't a bad thing inherently by itself.
But when you have a bunch of men who are lonely, hate women, don't have good connections, prefer the company of men, feel like they have nothing to lose, are fit, strong, and working out all the time, it makes the perfect “cannon fodder” as they call it.
Now with this new war, along with the destruction of democracy and the economy, it’s kind of impeccable timing.
What would be inspiring for them to want to stay or to not just go “bite the bullet?”
Which is incredibly sad, and they deserve better.
But how do we save a bunch of boys and men that don’t believe in being held accountable and aren’t willing to change?
Especially if it’s only women, that they believe are inferior and the root of all problems, suggesting they do so..
